Monday, November 29, 2010

Weekend...Ageing..Mama

Wow what a weekend..The kids and I, we went to MAHA on saturday and Sunway Lagoon on Sunday. So here is the story...

Saturday, after my things to do done in the morning, janji my bro that nak ikut gi MAHA 2010 with my parent. Pukul 2pm siap siap la semua nak  ke MAHA di Serdang..Berangkat la kami satu keluarga and my bro punya girlfren family as well...on the way hujan mak ai nya lebat giler..sampai kat UPM, kena park kereta punya lah jauh and its raining renyai2 je masa tu..yeeee happy than huh oh kena naik bas rapid kl to the place..biar betul naik bas with my mum and dad..plus d kids. ok la d kids will enjoy the ride but my mum..dah bertahun giler tak pernah naik bas k..hehehe so funny. So kita orang pun naik bas, Ya Allah punya aaaa jauh to the gate and suddenly its pouring..giler lebat. Jalan pulak jem macam naik bas gi chow kit k..teringat waktu belajar dulu2 hehehe..

My dad berdiri la in the bus n my mum nasib baik ada orang bagi duduk..as for me n d kids..kena la berdiri sampai destinasi. Once we reach to the gate of MAHA the bus stop but you still need to walk quite a distance..and its still raining so my parent decided to patah balik and go home..so naik bus je aaa kat sana..hahahaha..As for my bro and his girlfriend plus her parent..hmm sesat by the time sampai we all nak balik..hahaha..My God I am so tired, slept all the way home..

Sunday, gi Sunway Lagoon..Ok this is the story when you think you are young in heart where as old inside terutama your bonesssss.....Gosh. Again I went with my bro and girlfriend plus just my mum, of course my kids as well..Waterpark yupp had fun..wuhuuu water..no big deal..What flying fox, tergantung and turun..Oh ok jumm so queue la with my bro n gf..then yuhuuuuu turun..wow lajunya biar betui...aduiii...but cool hei macho k..young in heart beb..sister can still have fun bro.

Then my kids..mama jum la gi amusement park dia..oh ok..jumm. hei cool mum ok. I'm a modern mum, play with d kids..b the kids as well..yeahhh. So mama naik tu the ship..its actually go 180 degree and you pun tergantung la kat atas dengan beraninya ok..So huh ok, I can do this..hei cool mum ok.

Naik la pusing pusing..OMG my bone just crack ke apa nih..sakitnya badan tergantung kat atas nih...nasib baik le tak ada heart attack..gosh..then mama jum naik cawan pusing2..huh ok..jummm..mak ai poning deng..ni bleh kena darah tinggi ni beb..hahaha..so pusing lah pusing..nasib baik lerr tak throw up hahaha
but we had fun...

Gosh susah gak to be cool mum..no wonder la super mum go for yoga class, gym, spa and so on... tetiba nak lompat jadi super mum..kena la sakit belakang, sakit badan and so on..hahaha. So kena  la gi gym lepas nih..cause banyak lagi activiti with the kids require us to be fit...

My mum she is in her sixties...when I see her I see myself. She use to be very strong, healthy and iron lady k...but walking with her this weekend, gosh she not getting any younger..she is ageing and we still depend on her to look after the kids, to look after us even tho we have our family...but we still need her for the support in life..I love you mama...so very much.

Saturday, November 27, 2010

Forgiveness

Few events had happened to me this few days that make me angry, sad, disappointed and so on..with who..that is not important but what I want to write today is about Forgiveness..

See what happened today I met my friends..we chat, we laugh and then we had serious talk about marriage life. Inferdility..hmmm. It really hurt to hear her story and to advise her is something that its not easy cause if we are in her shoes..it really hurts.

Neway, after listening to her story..i wanna console her with so many example but the only I know how is to relate back to religion..back to Allah. While doing so and talk about Allah and forgiveness, I realize that I too need to do what I just preech.

I need to forgive the people that I'm angry with, I need to forgive sincerely and do it because of Allah. Insyaallah we will feel good...but to have the strength to forgive and forget is not easy depending on the mistakes or action..Hence you need to have a high believes in Allah and seek for forgiveness from HIM first on our wrong doing, then seek for forgiveness to the people that hurt our feelings because of Allah. We do this just for Allah..insyaallah Allah will help us and protect us.

Be strong and may Allah protect us all.

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Bibik wanna go home for a month

The time is here where your bibik must go home for a month..OMG i do rely on bibik to take care of my kids and house. The question is do we have choice not employing them.?? Frankly I need them. I can't really do everything in the house without them right now with my odd working hours ..hmmm

Luckly I have a good bibik, actually I would say she is more a nanny. She will take care of my kids when I'm not around and make sure they eat and go to school. Neway my kids are all big enuf to do their own stuff. When the time is right..we are fine without bibik..but right now..GOSH i need them.

Anyway today I booked Air Asia for her to go home..mak ai return ticket RM309. She wanted to ride the ferry but with raining season like this, I don't think it is safe..hehehe sayang my nanny. Just hope she have a safe journey home and balik sini balik laaaa..ye lah we shud know better la kan..diaorg ni toot tooottttt sometimes. hehehe

Sunday, November 21, 2010

Cooking Today

Hari nih malasnya nak keluar tapi bowink la plak kat rumah..hmmm apa nak buat. So terasa plak nak masak for the kids. Neway asyik makan luar je boring la plak kan. Bila lagi anak2 nak makan air tangan ibu..

Akhirnya siaplah menu yang hendak masak itu. Menu today: Ikan masak lemak cili padi with belimbing, ayam masak kicap and kangkung goreng. There's go my diet. Then teringat semalam ada buat sambal tumis ikan bilis..aduiiiiii..itu la kalau masak, mesti nak makan..hehehe kena kuat semangat control makan if not bertambah tambah, tapi bila tenguk anak2 makan bertambah2 sukanya hati seorang ibu.

Insyaallah nnt letak gambar yang dimasak. post dalam facebook je selalu..hehehe..selamat menjamu selera.

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Revisiting

Asyik kata nak blog..but with the new job and responsibilities, susahnya nak masuk berblog. So many ideas and things nak tulis..wanna write about life about what had happened in my life..the series of events..

The most important event..my daughter upsr result. She got 4A 1B. Well she is very sad for not getting 5A's but it's ok cause I know she really tried, she learn and study.

Me, me, me, me, hehehe i'm ok. Dah bersedia untuk apa je keputusan. Janji anak faham kenapa dia dapat keputusan itu dan menerimanya. I'm so proud of her..so life goes on an dia akan berusaha untuk mendapat yang terbaik didalam pelajarannya. Bagi seorang ibu yang penting adalah anak yang solehah. Solat jangan lupa..itu adalah segala asas. Selalu bagitahu my princess, kita perlu berusaha tetapi kita jumpa mesti sentiasa meminta pada Allah bagi mempermudahkan dan terangkan hati. Yang baik datang dari Allah yang tidak itu datang pada diri kita sendiri.

Oleh itu markah apa pun yang kita dapat dan being truthful to ourselves that we have done our best kita redho dengan pemberian Allah dan sentiasa berusaha, solat  dan berdoa. Pada mereka yang berusaha, berdoa tetapi masih rasa kegagalan, stop and think sejenak mungkin ada yang tidak betul..sebab ia berlaku pada saya sendiri..

I always feels that lerr dah usaha then solat..berdoa but tak dapat pun..hah cepat cuba fikir kenapa tak dapat...cause I know the answer is in your heart :-)

See you in the next publish..insyaallah.